As the seasons transition and back to school takes off, my focus shifts to my child’s safety, both physically and online, and how she is navigating this ever-changing digital landscape. Just as we previously collaborated on a safety plan for physical situations, I realized it was now necessary to develop a digital safety plan. Recognizing how many important topics I still haven’t discussed with my third grader; I knew I needed to come up with a plan.

Creating an open communication cadence, just as we do with general safety and well-being, is critical. We need to set boundaries, talk about protecting personal information, discuss cyberbullying, and how to be a good digital citizen. I must be proactive and learn about what online access my daughter has at school and review parental controls for her tablet. All these thoughts overwhelmed me initially, but when I took a moment to write them down and organize them, they felt doable. Remember, the key is to make this an ongoing conversation, like those we have around general safety and well-being.

What works for your family may look a little different, but here is how I’ve outlined the essential aspects:  

Establish Ground Rules:  

• Set boundaries and establish an ongoing dialog.  
• Address the risks of sharing personal information online and how to refrain from it.  
• Discuss why we do not talk with strangers online.  
• Establish a boundary around obtaining parental consent before downloading, purchasing, or installing software.  

Safety and Wellbeing:  

• Discuss how to avoid inappropriate websites, including what is inappropriate and how to stay safe.  
• Offer strategies on how to protect personal information.  
• Provide guidance on recognizing and dealing with cyberbullying.  
• Encourage children to share how they feel about this, ask questions, and get curious about the online world around us.  

Set Limits for Online Activities and Devices:  

• Define daily limits for screen time and other online activities. 
• Establish a technology curfew, including time for reading and relaxing offline.  

Parent Activities:  

• Review and set parent controls on all devices in the home.  
• Understand the full breadth of online activities your child has access to, at home and at school. Does their school have a computer science curriculum in place? Do they have access to a keyboarding curriculum to help prepare them for online assessments? Are they already getting a lot of screen time at school?  
• Regularly monitor your child’s devices, browser history, and other digital interactions.  

 Collaborate with Your School:  

• Find out what curriculum for online safety, digital citizenship, technology, and computer science your school is using. If they do not have a curriculum in place, ask your principal how they plan to teach these essential skills.  
• Recognize that online safety education needs to be an ongoing conversation with learning taking place throughout the year.  
• Work with your school on helping to nurture your child into a responsible digital citizen.  

Now that my online safety plan is organized, I can go into the back-to-school season with my daughter feeling confident that she will have the support, communication, and supervision she needs to safely navigate our digital world.   

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